Mediamyxx:You Don’t Say?

A couple of weeks ago I wrote an article about the media’s need to be the skin tone police when it comes to blacks. I wrote about the black and mainstream’s press obsession with Beyonce’s complexion. Well the Huffington Post had an article today that proved my very point, the faux outcries of “what about the children” are nothing more than using a famous celebrity to get more hits and press to their specific cause. Anthony Dickey wrote of his encounter with the press when he refused to give the press what they wanted ,please read  his story here:http://www.huffingtonpost.com/a-dickey/beyonce-skin-lightening_b_1240519.htmland go back and read my article here:http://mediamyxx.com/2012/01/18/the-complexion-police/. When you read these sites and writers extol their level of blackness over another remember it’s all about the hits at the end of the day let us know what you think in comments or @mediamyxx @akireshenri

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Mediamyxx:Rose Thorns

When I read an email circulating urban blogs about Amber Rose stealing from Kanye I shrugged continued to read the news for the day. Since Amber has debuted by Kanye’s side urban media and readers have seemed determined to make her the bad guy in Kanye’s life.  To keep it to the point I do not believe her “former publicist” Kanye had no problem putting Amber on front street and thievery was never in his arsenal of insults. It was about her giving pussy to ‘local dudes”. Look to say  Kanye is  narcissistic is an understatement. Him rapping and producing doesn’t mean he is without fault. I am further tired of the media acting like Amber is doing something wrong. She dated Kanye, they broke up and is trying to make her own name for herself. I agree 100% with Amber that if she grew up like Kim Kardashian she wouldn’t get half the flack. I mean Kanye himself stays in her face and let’s be real she is famous because she fucked Ray J and the sex tape “leaked” to Vivid a porn studio and they sold the rights and got paid. Amber is a former stripper from Philly it’s the same song no matter how you try to dress it up. If Kanye can jump from model to model and it adds to his image then Amber can do the same. I wish her all the luck in the world Amber I have no sympathy for men who throw away the woman who was down with them from gate to “upgrade” and then complain about the outcome of that decision. What say you hit me on in the comments section or on twitter @mediamyxx  @akireshenri

Mediamyxx:Hair again

If you are a black woman and you have hair you have in your lifetime dealt with social issues regarding how you choose to wear your hair. Hair within the black community has become a constricting dividing force within our community for years and unfortunately seems to have no end in sight. Perming, coloring, or wearing your hair naturally all come with assumptions about who you are as a person versus just liking to wear your hair a certain way. Ebony.com did a wonder “round table” with Style Editor Genevna S Thomas and various style bloggers based in NYC. Watch the video link provided below and tell us what you think. Is hair as big a deal as we make it or is it time for black women to embrace our choice of the sense of style we choose to have. Let us know on twitter : @mediamyxx @akireshenri

Ebony Hair Roundtable

Mediamyxx:Rosebarr Barr is an Idiot

When blues legend Etta James died last week after her long fight with leukemia Roseanne Barr used her twitter page to vent over Etta not singing for President Obama and blasted Beyonce for messing Etta over. While everyone is entitled to their own opinion it was not the place, time, nor business of Roseanne Barr. Of course Beyonce’s loyal stans rushed to her defense as Roseanne called them all kind of derogatory names. Of course the next day Roseanne issues an apology to the fans and to Beyonce praising her talent when she just said she couldn’t sing. Twitter is a wonderful social network which allows celebrities to speak directly to their fanbase but it comes a time when it’s too much. If Roseanne didn’t agree with the who the President wanted to sing she is well within her right but to use her death to rant about something so non important is just ridiculous. What do you think.

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Mediamyxx:Puff to Launch Music Channel

Since Hip Hop began to get  money I have waited for someone to step up to the plate and make a channel that features our music and culture and Puff finally stepped out. Puff is launching Revolt on 12/12/12 and is described as “the old Mtv” and like the businessman he is funding for the channel is already set up. The channel will is set to premiere on Time Warner Cable and Comcast. Go Puff we at Mediamyxx are so proud of you. Hopefully we will take Puff lead and get a movie studio and production company off the ground and stop complaining about roles.  Read the entire story here:http://www.theybf.com/2012/01/23/tv-fab-sean-diddy-combs-planning-to-launch-music-themed-cable-network-revolt

Mediamyxx:A New Day

I freaking get it Jennifer Hudson, you belive in miracles and you and meeee. Never in my life has a commmerical made me want to pick up my TV and hoist that thing into creation like her Weight Watchers commercials.  What commercial annoy you and why? Leave your comments or tells us on twitter @mediamyxx or @akireshenri

Mediamyxx:SOPA AND PIPA

On January 24th of this year congress will begin to hear arguments  regarding two bills set to curb internet piracy. SOPA (Stop Online Piracy Act) and PIPA (Protect IP Act) . The act is being backed by major movie studios , and music labels to help curb piracy of their goods however  it is also threatening to censor the internet and that is a violation of our constitutional rights. SOPA for instance would allow the federal government to shut down entire domains if they conclude the site is being used for piracy and that is without trial or a hearing.  This bill is similar to what China and Middle Eastern countries have to monitor and control what the citizens are allowed to view on the web. Many of us have used the internet to become build our own personal brands and live the American Dream. Please tell congress NO to censorship on the internet and NO to SOPA  and PIPA!

Mediamyxx:The Complexion Police

Three weeks into 2012 and thirsty black watch dogs have already found their Beyoncé race outrage to latch onto. This time the faux outrage stems from an unreleased picture from her latest album 4. Again there are claims her skin was digitally made lighter as she looks “pale” and gasp has blonde hair. Beyoncé colored her hair blonde in 1999 and since them black folk have lost their collective minds over it. I am always puzzled by the outrage as race related writers; blogs and apparently hair stylist run to the mainstream press to plug their respective business while questioning someone else’s level of blackness. In the new L’Oreal commercial the singer says her skin has a history and with a simple Google search you can see it from fresh out the womb. Beyoncé is a light skin black woman; she is lighter in the winter, darker in the summer and uses bronzer to give her skin her infamous Dangerously in Love golden glow. After 13 consecutive years of trying to find fault with Beyoncé on the matter of her complexion I am saying ENOUGH already. Contrary to what you are being told wearing blonde hair does not equate to wanting to be a white woman and more importantly no one has the right to pull your card for doing so. Etta James, Mary J Blige, T Boz, Keyshia Cole, Tiny and more recently Rihanna have used the lighter shade in their hair and have not had to deal with the constant backlash. There has to be another issue in black entertainment that you can latch onto for attention. I am in all truth surprised Beyoncé naming her daughter Blue is not more “proof” she “rejects” her black roots as she clearly could have named her baby Black or Brown. The pictures in question were taken last year and clearly are the same ones used last year when she promoted her album. Beyoncé is a black woman, married to a black man, she just gave birth to a black daughter, and she has a black mother, father, sister and family you can write article after article but her blackness is not up for debate period. Beyoncé sends a wonderful message to young black girls and that message is live your life to the fullest in the manner you please. She doesn’t respond to the nonsense nor does she attempt to prove “blackness” to her hecklers. In truth this is not about the message young girls get from her pictures, this is the typical black press doing w finding a popular person of color to extoll their agenda on. This is the same as Tavis Smiley using the president to fuel his agenda for his State of the “Black Union” or how we branded Whitney Houston as a “sell out” when she was on top for singing “white music” eventually booing her at the Soul Train Awards, or the infamous Michael Jackson smear campaign. It doesn’t stop there we have all seen Oprah, Tyler Perry, and Will Smith to name a few become entangled in some  criticism at the hands of the negro police that patrols the souls of the black rich and famous. At some point they didn’t hire enough blacks, didn’t wear their hair the standardized negro length or texture and when you step outside the guidelines it sends the ubiquitous “ bad message” to young people of color. Beyoncé is sending the best message of all to young black girls that you have the freedom express yourself however you see fit. No matter what anyone says about you, you do not have to fit into some mold of blackness. No matter the font or letter sizing you are a “real” black girl when you are born. If blonde hair makes you happy rock it, if you don’t feel like tanning and people call your pale that is their issue. Its is truly time to turn the page on this non issues and focus our talents on real issues facing the black youth and I can assure you it’s not the color of Beyonce’s hair or skin.  Let us know what you think do you agree with the color police?  Let us know by hitting us here or on twitter @mediamyxx .

Mediamyxx:Happy Birthday Dr. King

As many across the US and the World reflect in honor of Dr.Martin Luther King, Jr we here at Mediamyxx would like to ask what do you think Dr. King would think about the state of the world today. While we don’t have white only restaurants, stores and dogs attacking  blacks when they fellowship racism is just as alive today as it was then. When I was in junior high a mentor of mine told me desegregation in schools was the worst thing to ever happen. When he was in school they didn’t have a portion of the books, computers , or technology but they had teachers that loved them, believed in them, disciplined them and more importantly taught the values it took to survive.  I thought of that statement again as I watched the Marva Collins story who took those same values to make sure children that were not being educated in overcrowded public schools found solace in her school no matter their economic background. We live in a state of denial where roses are red, violets are blue, and equality is a reality. Blacks, Hispanics, Asians and women are all treated fairly and the dish ran away with the spoon. What Dr King saw on the mountain top visually has come to pass, but the mindset is pretty much the same. I am reminded of this as I watch the hilarious yet spot on “Shit white girls say to black girls”  video making the rounds on the internet and despite the progress we made we still do not  view each other on equal playing fields.  I related to so many of the quips particularly the , you are so smart and articulate  remark. As a grown woman I am still hit with that one when dealing with non blacks.  The new age bashing of Black women is our apparent inability to marry. Countless books, tv specials and male celebrity books all marketed to have black women lower our standards, self-esteem and play down your education and viola,  your frog prince is on the way.  Today is more than just a day off, it’s a day we can really take stock in where we want to go as the new century continues to progress. The world is becoming smaller, the long-term Super Powers are starting to lose their glare. It’s time to take the mountain top global and give Dr. King and Coretta the realization of his dream as he looks down from heaven.

Mediamyxx:Black Exellence

On January 7th Blue Ivy Carter entered planet earth and since that date the internet has been turned on its axis. Her birth produced everything from ridiculous conspiracy theories tying her to the devil and a surrogate to outrage over her VIP treatment at Lennox Hill. Two parents went to the press to let the world know they were not able to see their children on the sixth floor because of Beyoncé’s security. The two outraged parents however didn’t think filing a complaint with the hospital or state would be needed and, to this day they have not file a formal complaint. The hospital confirms seven other families agreed they had no issues seeing their children and just noticed higher security on the floor . The State of New York dismissed any wrong doing on the hospital’s part as the complaints that were actually filed   were instigated by people not even at the hospital during the Carters stay but some outraged by the media reports. As the fifteen minutes of fame wears off for those parents, Lennox Hill also disputes the 1.3 million dollar price tag the tabloids gave the glorious event and gave it a measly eight hundred dollars per night.  It’s clear all the outrage over Baby Blue’s birth was for naught but it also got me to thinking so what if Jay-z spent 1.3 million dollars to bring HIS baby into the world? Who are you to tell a man who earned his money how he should spend it. What if he did decide to paint the sky blue for his daughter? In the nursery rhyme hush little baby the song focuses on what Papa’s going to buy his baby for their happiness and Jay-z seems to really take it to heart and despite the public deciding what would show more couth it’s ok that man has every right to spoil his princess in any way he sees fit. The media has gone to great lengths in the past year to put the spotlight on the relationships of black heavy weights from how they raise their children, to how they spend their money. Days after Blue Ivy’s birth Tina Fey and Jane Krakowski were asked by Matt Lauer if they were upset at the treatment Beyoncé and her baby received while at Lennox Hill. The two actresses revealed they got treatment like anyone else at the hospital, however if the truth is allowed in this scenario the rooms weren’t available at the time they gave birth. Even  Mayor Bloomberg wasn’t immune to the press and their thirst to paint the joyous event in a bad light as the mayor defended the hospital’s right to compete with the luxury room market. Blue Ivy’s birth is one of the most covered stories on the planet and it’s refreshing to see the world celebrating the birth of a black child. If you are tired of the coverage take a nap, but after years of having Suri and the Jolie-Pitts shoved down my throat I celebrate the Carters bringing their baby into the lap of luxury. The one percent vs the ninety-nine percent you are trying to paint in the media ends when a man wants to make sure his wife is comfortable while giving birth to his baby girl. I hope going forward Jay and Beyonce take a strong  stance when asked about this debacle and continues to nurture their “greatest creation” like the princess she is and who gone stop them?